I want to tell you about our recent trip to Houston. We had not been down to see my dad in quite some time and thought that last weekend would be the perfect chance. Nobody would be busy with their 4th of July plans and we could stay with my brother and sister in law. My dad had undergone a recent heart procedure and I wanted to see for myself that he was doing okay.
We left early Saturday morning, after taking care of the usual weekend chores around our house. It was a pleasant drive except for a short 30 minute delay on I-45 while a funeral procession entered and then exited the freeway.
We stopped by the cemetery and visited my mother’s grave. It really is a lovely spot and will always be well maintained by the government, since it’s a national cemetery. Sadly though, there were so many new graves since we had last been there. The World War II veterans and their spouses are dying at such a rapid rate.
Next we headed for a quick bite of lunch at our favorite Tex-Mex restaurant. Of course the soccer game was on and that was fun to watch……for a while. We did not mind missing the end of the game, since the US unfortunately lost.
Then we were finally off to see my dad. He was in good shape and happy to see us. He always needs help with a few electronic devices, etc. Since his vision has deteriorated so much, the VA has given him a few new “toys” to help him.
He has a new telephone with huge numbers that makes it so much easier for him to place calls. The greatest device was a large “machine” upon which he can place newspapers and other reading material, that is then projected onto a background in huge type size that he can easily read. That is so perfect for him.
Our next stop was to Target to purchase an answering machine for his new phone and a surge protector for his new “reading machine.” We also bought a lock for his newly acquired storage unit, conveniently located at his senior living community, or at his apartment as he calls it.
I would love to have driven by our old home to see what is happening there with the new owners, but we just did not have enough time. Plus I’m sure the vast majority of work would have been going on inside and we would not have been able to see it anyway. Next time we will drive by there for sure.
We connected, assembled and plugged in all the new gadgets and gave my dad several lessons on them. I think his greatest difficulty is just that he can’t see well enough. It isn’t that he can’t figure them out.
By then it was time for dinner. We met my brother and sister in law and Dad took us all out to one of his favorite new little Italian restaurants close to him. It was a lovely evening and fun to catch up with all the happenings in our kids’ lives, etc. We drove Dad back to his apartment, made sure he was safely in (against his wishes), kissed goodbye and left for my brother’s house. We continued chatting until everyone was tired and ready for bed.
Chris and I had left MD in charge while we were gone for 1 night, so knew that everything was in good shape. We did, however, receive a call from a new client that afternoon. We needed to head back to Dallas early Sunday morning, so that we could meet personally with them in the afternoon. After stopping at our favorite bbq spot in Fairfield, we arrived home in plenty of time to prepare the documents and meet with the new clients.
While it always seems that our trips to Houston are so quick and not relaxing at all, they really are necessary. I have to see for myself that my dad is doing okay and help him with any projects that have to be done in person. Although I continue to assist him daily with paying bills, looking up phone numbers and simple conversation, there are just some things that can only be done in person. And Chris and I both love going down there and being able to do that.
Dad is still talking about coming up here later this month. It will be my mother’s birthday and his first without her in almost 70 years. I think that’s a grand idea. And while my dad does have a new caregiver who drives him and takes care of him from time to time, it will be nice for him to be away from Houston on that anniversary. Unfortunately, we were not able to meet her on this trip. That’s another next time event.
I hope that you enjoy this blog and hearing/reading about our family. We experience the same struggles and joys as you with caring about and for our parents. Call us at 214-389-9401 to discover the many ways we can help you experience the peace of mind in knowing that your loved one is well cared for. Look at our website at www.hereforyouhomecare.com and find out about the VA benefit that could be available for your family.
More news, tips, information and chat will be coming your way soon. I plan on telling you about our daughters’ adventures. One is planning a houseboat trip in Canada and the younger one is experiencing the joys and dangers of living in New York City.
Thanks and I’ll see you next time, Jan
Friday, July 2, 2010
Thursday, June 17, 2010
Don't be a Victim
Here is another example of something seniors need to be aware of and we, as their children need to be constantly diligent about. This is a wonderful article I recently found and wanted to share.
One in five older Americans a victim of financial fraud: survey
New program enlists doctors to protect patients, but you can take steps now to stay safe
By Robert Powell , June 16, 2010 MarketWatch
BOSTON (MarketWatch) -- Whether it's a rebate check from Medicare, an oil spill in the Gulf of Mexico, or any other headline news, there's likely a scam artist not far behind. And more often than not, the victim is an older American.
More than 7.3 million older Americans -- one out of every five citizens over the age of 65 -- already have been victimized by a financial swindle, according to a survey released Tuesday as part of World Elder Abuse Awareness Day.
One problem is that few professionals or adult children appear prepared to spot when an older American may be vulnerable to financial abuse. A new program launched Tuesday seeks to train medical professionals to assess when older patients might be likely to fall prey to elder investment fraud and financial exploitation.
The gist of this program is that medical professionals are in the best possible position to not only diagnose cases where elders are being swindled but also to alert state securities regulators or what some call "adult protective services professionals" about suspected investment fraud involving these at-risk patients.
This program, a new partnership between the Investor Protection Trust (IPT), the North American Securities Administrators Association, and the National Adult Protective Services Association (NAPSA), was based on a pilot program in Texas that produced three cases resulting in fines and prison sentences, including a 99-year sentence for one Edward S. Digges Jr. who raised at least $10 million from about 130 Texas investors, the majority of whom were elderly.
Financial concerns checklist
According to the Don Blandin, the president and chief executive of IPT, the centerpiece of the new program is the Clinician's Pocket Guide, which contains a list of questions that medical professionals can ask older patients. Doctors can get a sense of their patient's financial capacity by asking the following questions:
• Who manages your money day to day? How is that going?
• Do you run out of money at the end of the month?
• Do you regret or worry about financial decisions you've recently made?
• Have you given power of attorney to another person?
• Do you have a will? Has anyone asked you to change it?
If the answers to those questions raise suspicion, the doctors are then urged to probe for further details by asking whether the patient is having any of the following concerns:
• I have trouble paying bills because the bills are confusing to me.
• I don't feel confident making big financial decisions alone.
• I don't understand financial decisions that someone else is making for me.
• I give loans or gifts more than I can afford.
• My children or others are pressuring me to give them money.
• People are calling me or mailing me asking for money, lotteries.
• Someone is accessing my accounts or money seems to be disappearing.
If there's any cause for concern, the doctor is asked to consider sending the patient to one of four referral services. In fact, the doctor is required in most states to report cases where fraud or exploitation may have occurred to an adult protection service. In other cases, the doctor might send the patient for further medical testing for cognitive, neurological, or other conditions.
But there's no reason to wait on medical professionals to spot cases of elders who are being swindled. For instance, the program gives doctors a list of red flags. There's no reason why you -- either as an older American, an adult child of one, or a financial professional -- can't do the same. Ask yourself: Are you an older adult or do you know one who:
• is socially isolated, depressed or lonely?
• has experienced a change in the ability for self-care?
• depends on someone to provide everyday care?
• is uncomfortable with the person providing care?
• has just lost a loved one, such as a spouse?
• is financially responsible for an adult child or spouse?
• has given power of attorney to someone else to manage his or her finances?
If the answer to any of those questions is yes, then it might be well worth going into high-alert mode. In fact, it might be worth staying in high-alert for the rest of this century. Why? According to Blandin, those elders at greatest risk of being scammed are those with mild cognitive impairment who can perform most daily functions, but have trouble or become confused with others, such as following their medicine regimen or managing their finances. That may be quite a few people.
According to at least one study, more than one-third of the 25 million people over age 71 in the U.S. either have Alzheimer's or mild cognitive impairment. That represents quite a few potential scams.
The local police department can provide information about any scam or fraud that is currently taking place in the area. Please call us at 214-389-9401 if we can be of help to you or your loved one. And come back often to our website at www.hereforyouhomecare.com for more news you can use. Thanks for reading today,
Jan
One in five older Americans a victim of financial fraud: survey
New program enlists doctors to protect patients, but you can take steps now to stay safe
By Robert Powell , June 16, 2010 MarketWatch
BOSTON (MarketWatch) -- Whether it's a rebate check from Medicare, an oil spill in the Gulf of Mexico, or any other headline news, there's likely a scam artist not far behind. And more often than not, the victim is an older American.
More than 7.3 million older Americans -- one out of every five citizens over the age of 65 -- already have been victimized by a financial swindle, according to a survey released Tuesday as part of World Elder Abuse Awareness Day.
One problem is that few professionals or adult children appear prepared to spot when an older American may be vulnerable to financial abuse. A new program launched Tuesday seeks to train medical professionals to assess when older patients might be likely to fall prey to elder investment fraud and financial exploitation.
The gist of this program is that medical professionals are in the best possible position to not only diagnose cases where elders are being swindled but also to alert state securities regulators or what some call "adult protective services professionals" about suspected investment fraud involving these at-risk patients.
This program, a new partnership between the Investor Protection Trust (IPT), the North American Securities Administrators Association, and the National Adult Protective Services Association (NAPSA), was based on a pilot program in Texas that produced three cases resulting in fines and prison sentences, including a 99-year sentence for one Edward S. Digges Jr. who raised at least $10 million from about 130 Texas investors, the majority of whom were elderly.
Financial concerns checklist
According to the Don Blandin, the president and chief executive of IPT, the centerpiece of the new program is the Clinician's Pocket Guide, which contains a list of questions that medical professionals can ask older patients. Doctors can get a sense of their patient's financial capacity by asking the following questions:
• Who manages your money day to day? How is that going?
• Do you run out of money at the end of the month?
• Do you regret or worry about financial decisions you've recently made?
• Have you given power of attorney to another person?
• Do you have a will? Has anyone asked you to change it?
If the answers to those questions raise suspicion, the doctors are then urged to probe for further details by asking whether the patient is having any of the following concerns:
• I have trouble paying bills because the bills are confusing to me.
• I don't feel confident making big financial decisions alone.
• I don't understand financial decisions that someone else is making for me.
• I give loans or gifts more than I can afford.
• My children or others are pressuring me to give them money.
• People are calling me or mailing me asking for money, lotteries.
• Someone is accessing my accounts or money seems to be disappearing.
If there's any cause for concern, the doctor is asked to consider sending the patient to one of four referral services. In fact, the doctor is required in most states to report cases where fraud or exploitation may have occurred to an adult protection service. In other cases, the doctor might send the patient for further medical testing for cognitive, neurological, or other conditions.
But there's no reason to wait on medical professionals to spot cases of elders who are being swindled. For instance, the program gives doctors a list of red flags. There's no reason why you -- either as an older American, an adult child of one, or a financial professional -- can't do the same. Ask yourself: Are you an older adult or do you know one who:
• is socially isolated, depressed or lonely?
• has experienced a change in the ability for self-care?
• depends on someone to provide everyday care?
• is uncomfortable with the person providing care?
• has just lost a loved one, such as a spouse?
• is financially responsible for an adult child or spouse?
• has given power of attorney to someone else to manage his or her finances?
If the answer to any of those questions is yes, then it might be well worth going into high-alert mode. In fact, it might be worth staying in high-alert for the rest of this century. Why? According to Blandin, those elders at greatest risk of being scammed are those with mild cognitive impairment who can perform most daily functions, but have trouble or become confused with others, such as following their medicine regimen or managing their finances. That may be quite a few people.
According to at least one study, more than one-third of the 25 million people over age 71 in the U.S. either have Alzheimer's or mild cognitive impairment. That represents quite a few potential scams.
The local police department can provide information about any scam or fraud that is currently taking place in the area. Please call us at 214-389-9401 if we can be of help to you or your loved one. And come back often to our website at www.hereforyouhomecare.com for more news you can use. Thanks for reading today,
Jan
Thursday, June 3, 2010
California Here We Come
So the big day was here, our younger daughter was finishing grad school and receiving her Masters in Public Administration from a school in California. Of course Chris and I weren't about to miss that for the world. So we made all kinds of arrangements for all our clients and left our 2nd in command with numerous instructions and jetted off for San Francisco about 2 weeks ago. We knew that everyone was in good hands and we were only a phone call away should a need arise.
Chris and I had not been away for well over a year and with all the stress of my mother's passing and hard work helping my father move, we were ready for a mini vacation paired with attending a lovely and meaningful commencement. Plus there was the added benefit of seeing our other daughter and our son in law, K&G. Chris' brother, sister-in-law and mother, Jean, also made the long trip. What a fabulous time for all of us to be together. Unfortunately, my dad couldn't make it, but we have lots of pictures for him.
Very early Friday morning Chris and I set off on our adventure, leaving our first lieutenant, MD in charge here in Dallas. San Francisco is so gorgeous and cool. Even though it's not the summer doldrums here yet, it has been plenty hot and dry and we were ready for some cooler temperatures.
Now here's the really wonderful part about the trip....K&G drove down in their new truck and pulled their brand new RV and brought their new doggies. So they picked us up at the airport and we were greeted by Jax and Roxy as well as K&G. How fun was that! We actually stayed with them at a wonderful and comfy RV park south of SF. So the first place we headed after picking up C, our younger daughter, was to the coast. How lovely it was to walk along the boardwalk, watching the boats, listening to the sea lions and feeling the cool breezes on our skin. Some of the "kids" even kayaked around the bay. After a quick bite to eat, we headed to the RV park to get cleaned up and dressed for the first graduation event, an early evening pre-graduation reception/party.
It is a relatively small, private school, so we were able to meet and chat with several of C's professors. Again, with the cooler weather and the Pacific Ocean as a back drop, it was quite lovely. By the time we ate dinner and were back at the campground, it was almost midnight and Chris and I were practically zombies....it was really 2AM our time...so we headed straight to bed.
Saturday morning started with a yummy "camp breakfast" and preparations for the long day ahead. We dropped the pups in the yard at C's house and were off. We were lucky enough to find front row seats, so we were in great shape. Oh and did I mention, the graduation was outside? How magnificent was that! It was a little chilly, but I'll take that over a blazzing 95 degrees any day. How proud we all were to watch C. walk on stage and receive her MPA, having never made a "B" while there...although a few A-'s kept her from a perfect 4.0. Next came the reception complete with champagne, hors d'oeuvres, more professors (bragging about C of course), pictures, tears, congratulations and again the lovely cool outdoor weather.
By 3:30 everybody was heading their separate ways to do errands, relax and prepare for the celebratory dinner together later that evening. Jean wanted to treat us all to dinner and C. chose a wonderful little restaurant in Carmel. The service was beyond spectacular including the owner playing the "Oud", one of the cooks serenading a couple celebrating their anniversary and a server coercing C. and her boyfriend to belly dance with her. The food, champagne/wine and baklava were amazing and they even sent us home with 2 free bottles of wine. Altogether, a glorious day and amazing celebration/dinner.
The next day we did a touristy thing and went to the outlet mall in Gilroy. Oh how wonderful all that garlic smelled. Gilroy's nickname is "Garlic Capital of the World." And of course we had to eat once at the requisite "In N Out" while we were in California, so we accomplished that in Gilroy also. One of my favorite things about that drive was seeing all the glorious crops growing in the fields.....strawberries, artichokes (down by Castroville), lettuce, and some things we could not identify, but that nevertheless were beautiful.
The big event for that evening was the entire family getting together and staying at the RV Park near Santa Cruz. The other folks had rented an airstream for the night. K&G had bought a new smoker and were going to cook up a feast for dinner including brisket, ribs, chicken and sausage. I did help out a little by walking Jax & Roxy and by preparing the salad and corn. A good time was had by all even if it was a little nippy sitting outside. We had a great campfire and ended the evening by cooking smores...a first for some of the folks.
Monday morning some of the group left to go back home. K, G, Chris and I headed out for more touring. We made it all the way down to Big Sur. What amazing, spectacular sites. I had not been there since I was a child and it was not to be missed. The views of the Pacific were breathtaking. Then we proceeded back up to Carmel. We ate lunch at a dog friendly restaurant that even provided doggie menus for Jax and Roxy. Next came the inevitable walk along the beach which was also a major highlight for Jax and Roxy, not to mention me. I love feeling sand between my toes and "touching" the cold Pacific.
The next stop was Monterey and all of its glorious splendor. Cannery Row, the Aquarium and the Wharf are some of the major spots. We sat outside along the bay and enjoyed a drink and the view. Our last stop of the evening was bittersweet. We had to tell Christine goodbye and that is never easy for me. But I always bounce back pretty quickly. We raised our kids to spread their wings, go where they want and do whatever they want and they have. We are extremely proud of both of them.
We made it an early night. We had to wake up about 3AM Tuesday morning in order to make our 6AM flight. We arrived back at DFW around 2PM. It was a wonderful getaway and such a joy to watch C receive her Masters. The only down side is that she has not acquired a job as of yet. She is heading to New York City today to live with a friend for a few months. Most of the jobs in her field are either in New York or Washington DC and she reasons that it is much easier to find one if you are already living there. Anybody out there who can provide a job for a fabulous candidate (if I do say so myself) as a project manager for an international non-profit organization, please call me.
Thanks for reading. More helpful news and information coming your way next time,
Jan
Chris and I had not been away for well over a year and with all the stress of my mother's passing and hard work helping my father move, we were ready for a mini vacation paired with attending a lovely and meaningful commencement. Plus there was the added benefit of seeing our other daughter and our son in law, K&G. Chris' brother, sister-in-law and mother, Jean, also made the long trip. What a fabulous time for all of us to be together. Unfortunately, my dad couldn't make it, but we have lots of pictures for him.
Very early Friday morning Chris and I set off on our adventure, leaving our first lieutenant, MD in charge here in Dallas. San Francisco is so gorgeous and cool. Even though it's not the summer doldrums here yet, it has been plenty hot and dry and we were ready for some cooler temperatures.
Now here's the really wonderful part about the trip....K&G drove down in their new truck and pulled their brand new RV and brought their new doggies. So they picked us up at the airport and we were greeted by Jax and Roxy as well as K&G. How fun was that! We actually stayed with them at a wonderful and comfy RV park south of SF. So the first place we headed after picking up C, our younger daughter, was to the coast. How lovely it was to walk along the boardwalk, watching the boats, listening to the sea lions and feeling the cool breezes on our skin. Some of the "kids" even kayaked around the bay. After a quick bite to eat, we headed to the RV park to get cleaned up and dressed for the first graduation event, an early evening pre-graduation reception/party.
It is a relatively small, private school, so we were able to meet and chat with several of C's professors. Again, with the cooler weather and the Pacific Ocean as a back drop, it was quite lovely. By the time we ate dinner and were back at the campground, it was almost midnight and Chris and I were practically zombies....it was really 2AM our time...so we headed straight to bed.
Saturday morning started with a yummy "camp breakfast" and preparations for the long day ahead. We dropped the pups in the yard at C's house and were off. We were lucky enough to find front row seats, so we were in great shape. Oh and did I mention, the graduation was outside? How magnificent was that! It was a little chilly, but I'll take that over a blazzing 95 degrees any day. How proud we all were to watch C. walk on stage and receive her MPA, having never made a "B" while there...although a few A-'s kept her from a perfect 4.0. Next came the reception complete with champagne, hors d'oeuvres, more professors (bragging about C of course), pictures, tears, congratulations and again the lovely cool outdoor weather.
By 3:30 everybody was heading their separate ways to do errands, relax and prepare for the celebratory dinner together later that evening. Jean wanted to treat us all to dinner and C. chose a wonderful little restaurant in Carmel. The service was beyond spectacular including the owner playing the "Oud", one of the cooks serenading a couple celebrating their anniversary and a server coercing C. and her boyfriend to belly dance with her. The food, champagne/wine and baklava were amazing and they even sent us home with 2 free bottles of wine. Altogether, a glorious day and amazing celebration/dinner.
The next day we did a touristy thing and went to the outlet mall in Gilroy. Oh how wonderful all that garlic smelled. Gilroy's nickname is "Garlic Capital of the World." And of course we had to eat once at the requisite "In N Out" while we were in California, so we accomplished that in Gilroy also. One of my favorite things about that drive was seeing all the glorious crops growing in the fields.....strawberries, artichokes (down by Castroville), lettuce, and some things we could not identify, but that nevertheless were beautiful.
The big event for that evening was the entire family getting together and staying at the RV Park near Santa Cruz. The other folks had rented an airstream for the night. K&G had bought a new smoker and were going to cook up a feast for dinner including brisket, ribs, chicken and sausage. I did help out a little by walking Jax & Roxy and by preparing the salad and corn. A good time was had by all even if it was a little nippy sitting outside. We had a great campfire and ended the evening by cooking smores...a first for some of the folks.
Monday morning some of the group left to go back home. K, G, Chris and I headed out for more touring. We made it all the way down to Big Sur. What amazing, spectacular sites. I had not been there since I was a child and it was not to be missed. The views of the Pacific were breathtaking. Then we proceeded back up to Carmel. We ate lunch at a dog friendly restaurant that even provided doggie menus for Jax and Roxy. Next came the inevitable walk along the beach which was also a major highlight for Jax and Roxy, not to mention me. I love feeling sand between my toes and "touching" the cold Pacific.
The next stop was Monterey and all of its glorious splendor. Cannery Row, the Aquarium and the Wharf are some of the major spots. We sat outside along the bay and enjoyed a drink and the view. Our last stop of the evening was bittersweet. We had to tell Christine goodbye and that is never easy for me. But I always bounce back pretty quickly. We raised our kids to spread their wings, go where they want and do whatever they want and they have. We are extremely proud of both of them.
We made it an early night. We had to wake up about 3AM Tuesday morning in order to make our 6AM flight. We arrived back at DFW around 2PM. It was a wonderful getaway and such a joy to watch C receive her Masters. The only down side is that she has not acquired a job as of yet. She is heading to New York City today to live with a friend for a few months. Most of the jobs in her field are either in New York or Washington DC and she reasons that it is much easier to find one if you are already living there. Anybody out there who can provide a job for a fabulous candidate (if I do say so myself) as a project manager for an international non-profit organization, please call me.
Thanks for reading. More helpful news and information coming your way next time,
Jan
Monday, May 17, 2010
Resources for Caregivers - Alzheimer's
In my never ending effort to provide noteworty information for families and caregivers, I found this recent article in The New York Times. It provides resources on new advancements in technology to help caregivers keep their wandering loved ones at home. With the incidence of Alzheimer's growing at such a rapid pace, these devices or techniques may become extremely commonplace.
Resources and Technology to Help Caregivers Cope
By KIRK JOHNSON
Published: May 4, 2010
One Alzheimer’s wanderer in Arizona had lost much of his memory, but not, apparently, his interest in fashion: he never left the house without a beloved baseball cap on his head. So a trick the family used to keep the man around was to hide his caps.
Search-and-rescue experts who deal with dementia patients also recommend alarms on doors that sound when opened if a proper code is not entered, along with posters or wallpaper images that disguise or conceal doors. Sometimes a simple large, emphatic sign on every door saying “Stop!” will deter a wanderer.
Companies that make GPS devices are also starting to enter the growing Alzheimer’s market with products that look like wristwatches, and even shoes with GPS monitors embedded in the heels.
One company’s offering is at questguard.com/GPS-for-Alzheimers-Wandering_.html
A second is at brickhousesecurity.com/medicalalertbracelet-alzheimersdementiacare.html.
And a third is gpsshoe.com.
Lower on the technology scale, but widespread in its use around the nation, is radio frequency tracking. A nonprofit organization, Project Lifesaver, equips Alzheimer’s sufferers with wristbands. The group contracts with local government agencies to set up the service. To see if your community participates, contact the local sheriff, or the police or fire department.
Finally, the Alzheimer’s Association, a nonprofit group for victims and their families, has established a 24-hour emergency response line in conjunction with local law enforcement, along with an ID bracelet program that identifies the Alzheimer’s patient — something he or she may no longer be able to do.
KIRK JOHNSON
I hope that you find this information useful. Many of our caregivers have years of experience in caring for people with advanced dementia. We also provide training for all caregivers on assisting patients with Alzheimer's and memory loss. Please call our office at 214-389-9401 to ask for help caring for a loved one and visit our website at www.hereforyouhomecare.com to learn more.
Thanks for reading. See you next week,
Jan
Resources and Technology to Help Caregivers Cope
By KIRK JOHNSON
Published: May 4, 2010
One Alzheimer’s wanderer in Arizona had lost much of his memory, but not, apparently, his interest in fashion: he never left the house without a beloved baseball cap on his head. So a trick the family used to keep the man around was to hide his caps.
Search-and-rescue experts who deal with dementia patients also recommend alarms on doors that sound when opened if a proper code is not entered, along with posters or wallpaper images that disguise or conceal doors. Sometimes a simple large, emphatic sign on every door saying “Stop!” will deter a wanderer.
Companies that make GPS devices are also starting to enter the growing Alzheimer’s market with products that look like wristwatches, and even shoes with GPS monitors embedded in the heels.
One company’s offering is at questguard.com/GPS-for-Alzheimers-Wandering_.html
A second is at brickhousesecurity.com/medicalalertbracelet-alzheimersdementiacare.html.
And a third is gpsshoe.com.
Lower on the technology scale, but widespread in its use around the nation, is radio frequency tracking. A nonprofit organization, Project Lifesaver, equips Alzheimer’s sufferers with wristbands. The group contracts with local government agencies to set up the service. To see if your community participates, contact the local sheriff, or the police or fire department.
Finally, the Alzheimer’s Association, a nonprofit group for victims and their families, has established a 24-hour emergency response line in conjunction with local law enforcement, along with an ID bracelet program that identifies the Alzheimer’s patient — something he or she may no longer be able to do.
KIRK JOHNSON
I hope that you find this information useful. Many of our caregivers have years of experience in caring for people with advanced dementia. We also provide training for all caregivers on assisting patients with Alzheimer's and memory loss. Please call our office at 214-389-9401 to ask for help caring for a loved one and visit our website at www.hereforyouhomecare.com to learn more.
Thanks for reading. See you next week,
Jan
Friday, May 7, 2010
VA Benefit - Aid & Attendance
I want to tell you about a meeting we had last week. Chris had met a young man at a DAGS meeting whose father was opening a branch of his legal office in Dallas. They chatted a bit and then arranged a time for him to come visit at our office. So last Tuesday three memebers of the Ocker family came and told us about this wonderful benefit for veterans and their families.
A little known VA benefit called Aid and Attendance can be used to help pay for home care. We were aware of the benefit but had not realized just how much money was available. Currently only about 2% of the funds available for this purpose is being used. Our veterans deserve this money and we want to help make that happen.
Douglas Ocker, the patriarch of the family, is an attorney specializing in Elder Law, Probate and VA Benefits. His home office is in Corpus Christi, but his passion for helping veterans has led him and his family to expand. His son, Chris, is the Senior Veteran Advisor and his daughter, Dorotha, is the attorney heading up this new Dallas office.
As stated on the VA website:
The Aid and Attendance (A&A) Pension provides benefits for veterans and surviving spouses who require the regular attendance of another person to assist in eating, bathing, dressing and undressing or taking care of the needs of nature. It also includes individuals who are blind or a patient in a nursing home because of mental or physical incapacity. Assisted care in an assisting living facility also qualifies.
To qualify for A&A it needs to be established by your physician that you require daily assistance by others to dress, undress, bathing, cooking, eating, taking on or off of prosthetics, leave home etc. You DO NOT have to require assistance with all of these. There simply needs to be adequate medical evidence that you cannot function completely on your own.
The A&A Pension can provide up to $1,632 per month to a veteran, $1,055 per month to a surviving spouse, or $1,949 per month to a couple.
Eligibility must be proven by filing the proper Veterans Application for Pension or Compensation. This is where the Ocker law firm comes in. They can help you:
.determine eligibility
.apply for aid & attendance
.structure assets to qualify
.prepare application
.answer VA correspondence
.coordinate with assisted living
.coordinate with future medicaid
If someone in your family is a veteran or their spouse and needs help with activities of daily living please let us provide assistance. We can arrange a meeting to help determine eligibility to receive this life-long benefit. Call 214-389-9401 today for more information about this wonderful benefit and the in-home care we can provide to you or your loved one. Be sure to visit our website at www.hereforyouhomecare.com for all of the ways in which we can help keep you comfortable, safe and happy at home.
Thanks for visiting. See you soon,
Jan
A little known VA benefit called Aid and Attendance can be used to help pay for home care. We were aware of the benefit but had not realized just how much money was available. Currently only about 2% of the funds available for this purpose is being used. Our veterans deserve this money and we want to help make that happen.
Douglas Ocker, the patriarch of the family, is an attorney specializing in Elder Law, Probate and VA Benefits. His home office is in Corpus Christi, but his passion for helping veterans has led him and his family to expand. His son, Chris, is the Senior Veteran Advisor and his daughter, Dorotha, is the attorney heading up this new Dallas office.
As stated on the VA website:
The Aid and Attendance (A&A) Pension provides benefits for veterans and surviving spouses who require the regular attendance of another person to assist in eating, bathing, dressing and undressing or taking care of the needs of nature. It also includes individuals who are blind or a patient in a nursing home because of mental or physical incapacity. Assisted care in an assisting living facility also qualifies.
To qualify for A&A it needs to be established by your physician that you require daily assistance by others to dress, undress, bathing, cooking, eating, taking on or off of prosthetics, leave home etc. You DO NOT have to require assistance with all of these. There simply needs to be adequate medical evidence that you cannot function completely on your own.
The A&A Pension can provide up to $1,632 per month to a veteran, $1,055 per month to a surviving spouse, or $1,949 per month to a couple.
Eligibility must be proven by filing the proper Veterans Application for Pension or Compensation. This is where the Ocker law firm comes in. They can help you:
.determine eligibility
.apply for aid & attendance
.structure assets to qualify
.prepare application
.answer VA correspondence
.coordinate with assisted living
.coordinate with future medicaid
If someone in your family is a veteran or their spouse and needs help with activities of daily living please let us provide assistance. We can arrange a meeting to help determine eligibility to receive this life-long benefit. Call 214-389-9401 today for more information about this wonderful benefit and the in-home care we can provide to you or your loved one. Be sure to visit our website at www.hereforyouhomecare.com for all of the ways in which we can help keep you comfortable, safe and happy at home.
Thanks for visiting. See you soon,
Jan
Friday, April 30, 2010
The "Ups and Downs" of Canes and Walkers
I recently came across an article at myoptumhealth.com and thought it would be very beneficial for all to read. I don't know about you, but I always presumed that using a walker or cane would provide appropriate support and assistance for those needing a little help. Guess I was wrong. Keep reading to find out more.
Using Canes and Walkers Safely
Walking aids enable many older adults to remain active and independent. But use them right to be safe.
By Eve Glicksman, Staff Writer, myOptumHealth
If you have trouble walking, your ability to live on your own takes a big hit. Some people find that using a cane or walker can make all the difference.
But a six-year government study now warns that using walking aids the wrong way can cause falls in older adults. In fact, more than 47,000 seniors ended up in emergency rooms in 2006 due to falls that involved walkers or canes. One in three required hospital stays, mostly for fractures. With an average of 129 cane- or walker-related injuries a day, authors of the study call it an underrecognized health problem.
But how can assistive devices designed to help people sometimes cause injuries? Doctors often recommend walking aids to help elderly patients avoid falls. But more direction may be needed.
A walking aid needs to be tailored to the body and needs of the person using it. Yet, some people simply borrow a cane or walker from a relative or friend. Accidents can occur if the cane or walker is not the right length or type, or if the person is never shown how to use the aid safely.
Who should use a walking aid?
Canes and walkers can be invaluable. Shopping, for instance, may require long periods of standing and walking. If you have certain conditions, this can be impossible without an aid to lean on.
Walking aids enable many older adults to keep active and independent. They can reduce pain while walking or compensate for balance problems. Canes or walkers may be helpful for people with:
•Arthritis, especially in the knees or hips
•Instability from neuropathy or Parkinson's disease
•Balance and gait disorders
•Foot or leg injuries
•Generalized weakness of hips or legs
•Limited endurance from heart or lung problems
In many cases, canes and walkers are reimbursable through Medicare and other insurers.
Considerations
Talk with your doctor or a physical therapist about what type of walking aid would be best for you. Keep these pointers in mind:
For a cane, you'll need to decide whether you want a single rubber tip on the bottom or four prongs. This will depend on how much weight you will be applying to it.
For a proper fit, bend your elbow at a 20-degree to 30-degree angle. Have someone measure the length between your wrist and the floor. With your arm at your side, the cane's top should be parallel to your wrist.
Walkers are best for people who need more stability than a cane provides. Walkers also let you shift more weight to your arms. You'll need a heavy-duty one if you're overweight.
Wheels are an option if a walker is too heavy for you to lift. You can get one with two or four wheels depending on your needs.
Make sure the grip is comfortable when you pick out a cane or walker.
Get instructions
If you don't use your walking aid correctly, you may trip when you try to bend, reach or carry an object. Or the cane or walker may interfere with your balance.
Ask your doctor or physical therapist for a lesson on how to use your walking aid safely. Some general tips:
•Hold your cane on the opposite side of your injury or weakness. Put your weight on your good leg.
•When using a walker, lean slightly forward and hold the walker for support. Your arms should be slightly bent.
•Place your cane or walker firmly on the ground before each step. Don't put it too far ahead of you.
•Check the nonskid rubber tips on your cane or walker often. Buy a replacement at a drugstore or medical supply store if the tip looks worn or uneven.
I hope this has been informative. I will keep searching and then bringing you newsworthy articles as well as keep you informed about personal events. Next up.....our recent meeting with attorneys who help veterans receive their earned, but often left untouched benefits. Until then,
Jan
Using Canes and Walkers Safely
Walking aids enable many older adults to remain active and independent. But use them right to be safe.
By Eve Glicksman, Staff Writer, myOptumHealth
If you have trouble walking, your ability to live on your own takes a big hit. Some people find that using a cane or walker can make all the difference.
But a six-year government study now warns that using walking aids the wrong way can cause falls in older adults. In fact, more than 47,000 seniors ended up in emergency rooms in 2006 due to falls that involved walkers or canes. One in three required hospital stays, mostly for fractures. With an average of 129 cane- or walker-related injuries a day, authors of the study call it an underrecognized health problem.
But how can assistive devices designed to help people sometimes cause injuries? Doctors often recommend walking aids to help elderly patients avoid falls. But more direction may be needed.
A walking aid needs to be tailored to the body and needs of the person using it. Yet, some people simply borrow a cane or walker from a relative or friend. Accidents can occur if the cane or walker is not the right length or type, or if the person is never shown how to use the aid safely.
Who should use a walking aid?
Canes and walkers can be invaluable. Shopping, for instance, may require long periods of standing and walking. If you have certain conditions, this can be impossible without an aid to lean on.
Walking aids enable many older adults to keep active and independent. They can reduce pain while walking or compensate for balance problems. Canes or walkers may be helpful for people with:
•Arthritis, especially in the knees or hips
•Instability from neuropathy or Parkinson's disease
•Balance and gait disorders
•Foot or leg injuries
•Generalized weakness of hips or legs
•Limited endurance from heart or lung problems
In many cases, canes and walkers are reimbursable through Medicare and other insurers.
Considerations
Talk with your doctor or a physical therapist about what type of walking aid would be best for you. Keep these pointers in mind:
For a cane, you'll need to decide whether you want a single rubber tip on the bottom or four prongs. This will depend on how much weight you will be applying to it.
For a proper fit, bend your elbow at a 20-degree to 30-degree angle. Have someone measure the length between your wrist and the floor. With your arm at your side, the cane's top should be parallel to your wrist.
Walkers are best for people who need more stability than a cane provides. Walkers also let you shift more weight to your arms. You'll need a heavy-duty one if you're overweight.
Wheels are an option if a walker is too heavy for you to lift. You can get one with two or four wheels depending on your needs.
Make sure the grip is comfortable when you pick out a cane or walker.
Get instructions
If you don't use your walking aid correctly, you may trip when you try to bend, reach or carry an object. Or the cane or walker may interfere with your balance.
Ask your doctor or physical therapist for a lesson on how to use your walking aid safely. Some general tips:
•Hold your cane on the opposite side of your injury or weakness. Put your weight on your good leg.
•When using a walker, lean slightly forward and hold the walker for support. Your arms should be slightly bent.
•Place your cane or walker firmly on the ground before each step. Don't put it too far ahead of you.
•Check the nonskid rubber tips on your cane or walker often. Buy a replacement at a drugstore or medical supply store if the tip looks worn or uneven.
I hope this has been informative. I will keep searching and then bringing you newsworthy articles as well as keep you informed about personal events. Next up.....our recent meeting with attorneys who help veterans receive their earned, but often left untouched benefits. Until then,
Jan
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
Fourteen Hours of People Watching.
Have you ever thought about treating your allergies with a trip to the chiropractor? That was just one of the many sound bites I heard this past weekend. But let me start back at the beginning. A friend of ours, who is the community educator and volunteer liasion for a hospice company, invited us to share a table with her at the Wellness Expo in Addison this past weekend. Chris and I are always up for a new adventure and experience, so we said sure.
It was a cloudy, rainy, cool weekend so we wouldn't be able to work in the yard. And wouldn't you rather attend a lecture entitled "Attached Entities: The Bad Kids of the Ghost World" than to be stuck inside cleaning your house all weekend? Of course you would.
As we have never attended such an event, we knew it would be interesting and eye opening. Our friend, Johnnie, had warned us it would be a little different from the usual health fair, trade show, community event we attend. Chris and I love to be involved; to go out there and attend local events, get to meet people and tell them a little about us and why we started this company.
We arrived about an hour early on Saturday morning to set up. How long does it really take to set out some brochures, cards, pens, pads and to hang a sign? But we wanted to be prepared and ready to hit the ground running. Now some others really came prepared.....elaborate computer set ups, special colored lights dangling from the ceiling, massage tables, etc.
The crowds started pouring in just as the doors opened and we began welcoming people to our table. We had a front row table, a great location to meet and greet. On the other hand, most people who go to a wellness expo are not that interested in talking to a representative from a hospice company. And since we were sharing a table with Johnnie, we were associated with her. But it's all part of the life cycle and was a wonderful opportunity to educate people about its fabulous benefits.
We tried "healthy coffee", listened to "Celestial Vibrations through Music", met the executive director of the DFW Metaphysical Chamber of Commerce, a cosmic counselor, a psychic medium, a purveyor of energetically enhanced jewelry, and a specialist in kinetic chromotherapy. We also met people who were interested in finding out more about home care and how it would help their parents live more comfortably, while staying in their own homes as long as possible.
All in all it was a very enjoyable, but long weekend. We were there for about 8 hours on Saturday probably seeing about 500 people. While Sunday was a rainy, ugly day that didn't stop the crowds. Attendance swelled to over 600 people. I hope to go back again in October to the fall expo. In the meantime, if you are seeking home care for a loved one in the Dallas area please call us today at 214-389-9401. Also please take a look at our website at www.hereforyouhomecare.com to see the specialized care we offer. I am confident we can make a difference in the life of someone you love.
See you next time,
Jan
It was a cloudy, rainy, cool weekend so we wouldn't be able to work in the yard. And wouldn't you rather attend a lecture entitled "Attached Entities: The Bad Kids of the Ghost World" than to be stuck inside cleaning your house all weekend? Of course you would.
As we have never attended such an event, we knew it would be interesting and eye opening. Our friend, Johnnie, had warned us it would be a little different from the usual health fair, trade show, community event we attend. Chris and I love to be involved; to go out there and attend local events, get to meet people and tell them a little about us and why we started this company.
We arrived about an hour early on Saturday morning to set up. How long does it really take to set out some brochures, cards, pens, pads and to hang a sign? But we wanted to be prepared and ready to hit the ground running. Now some others really came prepared.....elaborate computer set ups, special colored lights dangling from the ceiling, massage tables, etc.
The crowds started pouring in just as the doors opened and we began welcoming people to our table. We had a front row table, a great location to meet and greet. On the other hand, most people who go to a wellness expo are not that interested in talking to a representative from a hospice company. And since we were sharing a table with Johnnie, we were associated with her. But it's all part of the life cycle and was a wonderful opportunity to educate people about its fabulous benefits.
We tried "healthy coffee", listened to "Celestial Vibrations through Music", met the executive director of the DFW Metaphysical Chamber of Commerce, a cosmic counselor, a psychic medium, a purveyor of energetically enhanced jewelry, and a specialist in kinetic chromotherapy. We also met people who were interested in finding out more about home care and how it would help their parents live more comfortably, while staying in their own homes as long as possible.
All in all it was a very enjoyable, but long weekend. We were there for about 8 hours on Saturday probably seeing about 500 people. While Sunday was a rainy, ugly day that didn't stop the crowds. Attendance swelled to over 600 people. I hope to go back again in October to the fall expo. In the meantime, if you are seeking home care for a loved one in the Dallas area please call us today at 214-389-9401. Also please take a look at our website at www.hereforyouhomecare.com to see the specialized care we offer. I am confident we can make a difference in the life of someone you love.
See you next time,
Jan
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